On my wife birthday - Man's talk by Sumantri.
Bandar Seribegwan 14 December 2006. Creating something special for some one special in your life some time its can be difficult. You may say special gift, birthday cake or flower can be special. Have you ever chit chat with the person to find out whether she or he felt special?. Is a big question right?This year I created the birthday celebration for my wife in difference way here is the detail :
1. Selecting the emotional flowers. There are so much kind of flower you can find at the shop, some got red colors,blue, yellow with or without smell. When you selecting the flower definitely, emotionally your eyes first will determine whether is nice or not. Once your eyes determine nice or opposite means your already get the emotional feeling.
But this is not enough my friend! You have to create continuously emotional feeling not only sight sense! again,Is not enough!! But with others sense!. Select the nice flower with colors and smell, recommended such as lily, jasmine or others ( please note only applicable for those who not allergic ). Its doesn't mean other flowers with out smell is not nice if your wife really like curtain flower you better buy it. Rose and others also nice. When the smell is there is creating continuously feeling to remember.
2. Have you ever thing to involve your wife in arranging the flower? Not right? Or seldom right? Start now to ask your wife involve in arranging flower bought from you to your wife. She will like it and she will love it and proud to do it. Do you realise that man normally just grab nice flower and nice arrangement.
Start to look other alternative buy a flower by stick get your wife to arrange it , inside the flower vase ( please note flower inside the vase will be live more longer compare to the flower which already arrange caused its used wet foam only )
3. Selecting wording on birthday cake. Do you know that some time you don't even release that wording on the birthday cake is represent your self! use the word which normally you use with your wife maybe sayang!! ( means love ), darling, honey . Don't use the world which you never say it!! it will create diferent message. I never call my wife "my love" I always call my wife honey and if in the birthday cake i wrote "Happy Birthday my Love " could be you wife will think this must be he ask some body to order the cake or perhaps will have others perception or what so ever. Don't happen until like that in your life ok.
4. Memento!You may need to make surprise when cake cutting celebration held,may be sharp 12.00 or early morning. Pre-order or prepare some food you may use for supper or breakfast in the room privately.
5.Gifts item! always have something in the hand even small token. You may look other alternative of gift such as SPA voucher, Beauty voucher instead of bag,shoes,cloths or DIAMOND. Other alternative is if you from Asia you may have many thing from ancient history that symbol of something. Example Chinese believe red is good luck and 8 is rich photos show 8 eggs in red color, if you are Java,Malay or other I believe you have also similar things. Explore ask your mom, grand ma or family.
5.Record your memory in mind and in actual use cameras,video etc.
Don't be afraid experience life with your love's one. Happy birthday darling!! I love you!!
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